Support list subclasses and fix dict subclasses mutation bugs (#146819)

Summary:
This PR adds support for list subclasses. Among other things are

1) Tracking the mutations on internal vts like `_dict_vt` and `_list_vt` using sources. This helps identify if there was a mutation in the underlying data structures, and we need to reconstruct it.
2) `UserDefinedObjectVariable` now has a new method - `is_modified` which `side_effect` infra relies upon to check mutations in the underlying vts (like `_dict_vt`).
3) `reconstruction` logic ensures that we use `dict.__getitem__` and `list.__getitem__` methods. This is super important because we don't want to call the overridden `__getitem__` methods.

If this PR is hard to review, please let me know. I can break it into several small PRs.

X-link: pytorch/pytorch#146819
Approved by: https://github.com/StrongerXi, https://github.com/jansel

Reviewed By: huydhn

Differential Revision: D69537369

fbshipit-source-id: 9c20f4ee84c91639c320a3a04a1a153859623ab6

Author: anijain2305

userbenchmark/dynamo/dynamobench/_dynamo/utils.py

@@ -2356,6 +2356,8 @@ def check_numpy_ndarray_args(args, kwargs):
 
 tuple_new = tuple.__new__
 tuple_methods = {method for method in tuple.__dict__.values() if callable(method)}
+list_methods = {method for method in list.__dict__.values() if callable(method)}
+list_getitem = list.__getitem__
 
 
 def builtin_dict_keys(d):
@@ -2407,8 +2409,15 @@ def to_subclass(t, cls):
     return t.as_subclass(cls)
 
 
+dict_getitem = dict.__getitem__
+
+
 def dict_keys_getitem(d, n):
-    return next(itertools.islice(iter(d), n, n + 1))
+    # Call dict(d) to prevent calling overridden __iter__/keys
+    dict_class = dict
+    if isinstance(d, OrderedDict):
+        dict_class = OrderedDict
+    return next(itertools.islice(dict_class.keys(d), n, n + 1))
 
 
 def enum_repr(value, local):